April 26, 2010

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selagi pemikiran anda tertumpu untuk puaskan hati orang lain ,
selagi itu anda takkan berubah jadi elok..

yang betulnya ialah ,
berusaha supaya orang sekeliling hormati pendirian anda 
dengan cara serius dan bijaksana dalam tindakan
bukannya bergantung pada pendapat orang lain..

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Hempedu simpati dalam persahabatan..


Pahit bagai hempedu!

"Sabarlah... kawan aku dahulu sakit macam ini juga. Walaupun dia meninggal dunia, aku yakin engkau mampu mengatasinya!" seorang teman yang baik hati memberi nasihat.

Hatinya baik.

Tetapi hati yang tidak dipandu akal, menyebabkan mulut ditimpa bebal. Bercakap sesuatu dengan maksud yang baik, tetapi salah memilih perkataan.

Dia menyangka perkataannya bisa mengurangkan penderitaan teman yang diziarahi. Hakikatnya, perkataan simpati yang dilontar itu sungguh pedih dan membunuh harapan.

KANSER

"Engkau beruntung. Allah sayang engkau sebab dia peringatkan engkau yang hidup ini sementara!" kata seorang lagi.

Kata-kata perangsang yang ditujukan kepada seorang teman yang sedang bertarung dengan kanser.

Apakah yang ada di kepala teman seperti ini semasa dia berkata begitu? Apakah itu sahaja harga sebuah kematian? Bercakap tentang kematian orang lain tidak sama dengan berfikir tentang kematian diri sendiri. Kata-kata sedemikian rupa sangat menyalahi adab menziarahi orang sakit yang diajar oleh Sunnah.

April 24, 2010

what matter most in your life..?



Yaha.. kini kita bertemu lg dlm rancangan dari studio JAC..muahaha..

nampak tajuk pun sudah serius..hayya..rilek sudeyh..ini adalah soalan yg ditujukan kpd aku drpd seseorg..mcm formspring la pulak..tapi versi blog..x apala, utk tidak menghampakan beliau aku tulis entri ini...

okey, what matter most utk aku ialah Tuhan dan agamaku...aku adalah seorg hamba dan makhluk ciptaan Allah di dunia...sesungguhnya sebelum ni di alam roh, aku sungguh dekat dgn Tuhanku...aku diberi sedikit waktu utk hidup di dunia dan mencari bekalan sebanyaknya utk kehidupan yg hakiki di akhirat kelak...walaupun ya selalu tergelincir dengan arus onak kehidupan, kalau boleh aku mau ikut semua ajaran yg ditetapkan oleh agamaNya - Islam...mudah2han bila aku meninggalkan dunia satu hari nanti, aku dpt membawa iman walaupun sebesar zarah...insyaallah..

next,what i can say is menjaga hubungan is one of the important thing..ibu-bapa, keluarga, sepupu, jiran, cigu2 dan  kawan2 dan overally lingkaran masyrakat antara org yg mmberi pengaruh..penting oo jaga hati mereka..seboleh-bolehnya beri komitmen yg terbaek..layan dan fahami karenah msg2..cuba jangan sakitkan hati diorg..menghargai, minta maaf...senyum banyak2..dan bermcm mcm lagilah cara digunakan supaya kehidupan berhubungan dpt dieratkan tanpa permusuhan..or should i say that love is really matter in life..indeed i thought so..agak jiwang di situ..ish3

however la..rasanya, x bnyk yg matter2 ni aku berjaya buat disebabkan beberapa kekurangan..yg penting aku cuba..ada panduan yg jelas sbg keutamaan.. :)

April 19, 2010

through your journey..


Benih azam yang menyusur diri adalah warna ketinggian nurani,
renda kemenangan adalah cambahan kesabaran yang tidak pernah pudar..
Ayuh.,bangun merentangi halangan demi sebuah mekarnya kejayaan..

Teruskan perjuangan dalam bidang yang diminati, 
walau sebesarmanapun gelompang yang menghalang..
Usah kembali berpatah ke Pengkalan,
layarkan terus bahtera perjuangan hingga berjaya mencecah Pulau Impian..

Hidup di dunia laksana mengharungi samudera yang sentiasa bergelombang..
Kesanggupan menempuh gelombang itulah dikatakan perjuangan hidup..

April 18, 2010

hari ni penuh sesak!


lokasi : depan rumah menghadap ke barat..
masa : 18 april 2010 : 6 50 ptg..
caption : mentari bersinar lepas hujan..

apa yg penuh sesak.? cuba teka..huhuhu..

mcam biasala, bila dah dekat exam, rajin pulak student2 ni pakat2 datang masjid semayang jemaah,solat hajat dan mengaji..

yg hebatnya, smpai ada pulak yg sanggup solat kat penjuru dinding yg smpit lg panas..yg xda tmpt pun ada gak...ish3..harap NC boleh amek tindakan atas masalah ini..huhu

kagum dgn niat diorg ni, nak jumpa Tuhan..nak dekatkan diri kepada yg Maha Esa..strusnya memohon dipermudahkan segala urusan masa exam nti..
so, mudah2han perkara ini berterusan utk bila2 masa bukan exam sja...insyaallah..

selamat menghadapi final exam sem 2 tahun 1 2009/2010 sarjana muda sains komputer buat diriku..
dan juga buat yg lain...jgn lupa berdoa...


p/s : jgn lupa bawa slip periksa dan kad matrik skali..hehehe..

April 12, 2010

barang baik dari inbox gmail daa..


Importance of Giving Sadaqah

Imam Nawawi (rahimahullah) says, “There are three hundred sixty joints in a human body. It is these joints which enable him to work and make all kinds of movements. If man’s body did not have these joints, it would have been impossible for him to sit, stand, lie, move, and make use of the different organs of his body. Thus every joint is a blessing for which one must express gratitude to Allah. It is yet another blessing of Allah that He has also told man a very easy way of thanksgiving which can be practiced even by the poorest man in the world. This means of thanksgiving is recitation of tasbih (subhaan Allah), tahmid (alhamdulillah), takbir (Allahu Akbar), tahlil (la ilaha illallah), and to preach virtue and forbid wrong or unlawful conduct, etc. If one is unable to do even this, then he should perform two rak’ah prayer. If one wants to enlarge the number of rak’ah, he can increase them to eight with the condition that the eight are divided into four couplets.”



Ways You Can Give Sadaqah


  • Any good deed. ”Every good deed (ma’ruf) is charity.” [Bukhari]
We learn from this hadith that whatever good action and deed is done by a Muslim, he gets a reward of sadaqah on it. The word ma’ruf stands here for every virtue and noble deed. Renunciation of evils is also a virtue (mar’uf).
  • Dhikr/Remembrance of Allah. Abu Dharr (may Allah be pleased with him) reported: Some people said to Messenger of Allah (sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam): “O Messenger of Allah, the rich have taken away (all the) reward. They observe salat (prayers) as we do; and give sadaqah (charity) out of their surplus wealth.” Upon this he said, “Has Allah not prescribed for you (a course) following which you can (also) give sadaqah? In every declaration of the glorification of Allah (i.e., sayingsubhaan Allah) there is a sadaqah, and in every takbir (i.e., saying Allahu Akbar) is a sadaqah, and in every celebration of praise (saying alhamdulillah) is a sadaqah, and in every declaration that He is One (la ilaha illallah) is a sadaqah.” [Muslim]
Imam Nawawi (rahimahullah) says, “This hadith highlights two important points. Firstly, the enthusiasm of the companions of the Prophet (sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam) for surpassing each other in good actions. Secondly, it tells that virtue has a vast meaning in Islam and it includes every action which is done with good intention, provided it does not involve disobedience of Allah. So much so that it covers even natural activities of man which fall in the category of mubah (that which is permissible and may be omitted without fear of sin) and one is rewarded for them. Not only that, one is rewarded even for abstaining from a sin on the condition that the abstention is for the obedience of Allah. Then abstention rises to the level of an act of obedience and is rewarded likewise.”
  • Good Speech. ”A good word is a charity.” [Bukhari and Muslim]
  • Walking to the masjid for prayer. ”Every step that you take (towards the masjid) for prayer is a charity.” [Bukhari and Muslim]
  • Removing something harmful from the road. ”Removing harmful things from the road is a charity.” [Bukhari and Muslim]
  • Being just. ”Administering justice between two men is a charity.” [Bukhari and Muslim]
  • Helping someone with their luggage. ”Assisting a man to mount his beast, or helping him load his luggage on it is a charity.” [Bukhari and Muslim]
  • Spending on your family. ”O son of Adam, if you spend the surplus, it will be better for you; and if you retain it, it will be bad for you. You will not be reprimanded for keeping what is enough for your need. Begin with those who are your dependents, and the upper hand (i.e., the one that spends in the way of Allah) is better than the lower hand (i.e., the one that receives charity).” [Muslim]
  • Assisting the needy. ”Then let him assist the needy, the aggrieved.” [Bukhari and Muslim]
  • Enjoining good. ”Then he should enjoin good.” [Bukhari and Muslim]
  • Abstaining from evil. ”"He should then abstain from evil, for verily, that is a charity from him.” [Bukhari and Muslim]
  • Planting a tree. ”When a Muslim plants a tree, whatever is eaten from it is charity from him and whatever is stolen is charity and whatever is subtracted from it is charity.” [Muslim]
  • Feeding others. A man asked Messenger of Allah (sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam), “Which act in Islam is the best?” He (sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam) replied, “To feed (the poor and the needy) and to greet those whom you know and those you do not know.” [Al-Bukhari and Muslim]
  • Using any resource (time, food, knowledge) to spend on others. ”And whatsoever you spend of anything (in Allah’s Cause), He will replace it.” (34:39)

April 11, 2010

Begin with..?



sebelum memulakan bacaan, alangkah baguusnya jika dapat amalkan doa ini..

Doa penerang hati dan memulakan bacaan : 

Ya Allah, bukakanlah ke atas kami hikmatMu
dan limpahilah ke atas kami khazanah rahmatMu,
wahai Tuhan Yang Maha Pemurah lagi Maha Penyayang..
Wahai Tuhanku,tambahkanlah ilmuku dan luaskanlah kefahamanku..
Wahai Tuhanku, lapangkanlah dadaku dan mudahkanlah urusanku..

selepas baca doa ini,kompem hati pun senang untuk menelan semua apa yg dibaca..
kalau teritdur tu lain ceritalah..muahaha...

selamat mencuba dan mengamalkannya...

April 10, 2010

study week = ON


hari ini hari sabtu.. hari pertama dalam study week..hari ini aku bangun sepaginya, smyg subuh mandi dan sarapan nasi lemak (lain dari kebiasaan..hoho..)..sepatutnya, waktu menulis entry ini aku dan senior2 sdg sampai d Multimedia University, Cyberjaya utk program CISCO...tapi aku memilih utk tidak pegi atas sbb kepentingan diri sendiri..ish3..tentatif program ialah ujian online dlm bidang networking dn pameran kerjaya..harap tahun depan aku dapat participate.. jadi utk tidak mengecewakan diri d smping menaikkan smgt utk study, aku post entry ini..hua3..

antara lain utk post ini ialah tntg Facebook..melogin fesbuk pd stiap pagi adalah wajib..syukur alhamdulillah hari ini berjaya x buka fesbuk pun..mudah2han begini sampai abes exam..muahaha..

dah dah dah..x bleh lama2..masa itu emas..org kata masa study week ni kebiasaannya x cukup utk revision semua sabjek...org tawau bilang gantung masanya..haha...ku jawab : bah pa lagi, jangan di kasi lama..haha..

p/s : slamat berjaya utk diriku sendiri dan kawan2.. ^^